Kort also seems to deny that men can be bisexual and like you wrote he seems to want to back up the failed theory that men can only be either straight/hetero or gay/homosexual. Kort is doing more harm for closeted or in denial bisexual and gay men who are unsure about their sexuality or in complete denial who hope that they can somehow be LOL “Straight” and yet somehow have sex with men which is a complete contradiction. I agree with Edward I’ve never met any actual straight or hetero guy who did have sex with a man, or who wanted to have sex with a man at all. I can see trying and then moving on, but I find it hard to believe 1 in 10 straight 40 years suddenly want to checkout swapping blow jobs with their buddies. Kinsey reported similar results from his study, now more than 60 years ago the same-sex experience though occurred during their 16-24 years, and the later identification as straight was 24+ years of age. And if they wanted to experience sex with a man and a woman at the same time, also, fine by me, just with someone else who shared that desire. If they wanted to pursue women, that was fine by me just not with me. I know I have had fun hot times some bi men, but ours would be limited to pursuing just the gay aspect with me. And if there are straight guys who also want to experiment with men or engage in mutual sex with men, aren’t they called bisexuals?Īs a gay man, I find sexual compatibility only with men who want to have fun romantic to wild gay sex with me, doing eachother for eachother’s pleasure. Never got the excitement or desire to be the object of some straight guy’s blue balls because he couldn’t find a girl. LGBT studies professor Joe Kort discussing a recent study showing 1 in 10 heterosexual-identified men have sex with other men, in Psychology Today. Some have been sexually abused and are compulsively reenacting childhood sexual trauma by male perpetrators some find sexual release with another man more accessible some have sex with men because it’s easier and requires fewer social skills than those required to have sex with women some are “gay for pay” and get financial rewards some like the attention they receive from other men some like anal sex, which they’re otherwise too ashamed to talk about or engage in with their female partners. Their behavior may reflect a desire to experiment, to engage in something that’s taboo, or to express inner psychological conflicts involving their sexual feelings and desires that have nothing to do with having a gay or bisexual identity.Straight men who have sex with men do so for a variety of reasons. They don’t sexually desire or get aroused by looking at other men, only by the sexual act…These men typically want to bond with and get affection from other men. When using a search engine such as Google, Bing or Yahoo check the safe search settings where you can exclude adult content sites from your search results Īsk your internet service provider if they offer additional filters īe responsible, know what your children are doing online.For straight men who have sex with men, same-sex encounters aren’t about romance or sexual attraction and desire, but about sexual and physiological arousal-“getting off” with another who’s male and accessible. Use family filters of your operating systems and/or browsers Other steps you can take to protect your children are:
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